You can name someone to take care of your child when you become incapacitated or die. If you don’t name a guardian and are unable to take care of your child, the court will appoint an eligible person, which typically is the nearest ascendant in the direct line of the minor.
While the court will consider your child’s best interest when choosing a guardian, the chosen party may not have the qualities you would like your child to grow around. That’s why it’s important to name a guardian for your minor child when estate planning.
Below are three tips to help you when choosing a guardian:
1. Choose someone you share values with
Choose someone you share values with so your child can be raised with the same beliefs you wish to instill in them. The values to look for include parental, educational, religious, financial and cultural.
If a loved one’s lifestyle choices do not align with the upbringing you hope for your child, they may not be the most suitable choice.
2. Consider age and health
Considering age when choosing a guardian is vital. While your parents may currently be the best guardians, will they still be able to meet your child’s needs when they become older?
You should also consider a guardian’s physical and mental well-being, as it can directly affect their ability to raise a child.
3. Find someone willing to be your child’s guardian
Have an open discussion with the people who possess the qualities you are looking for in a guardian to confirm if they are willing to accept the role. Inform them about why you chose them, their expected responsibilities and your expectations.
Selecting a guardian for your child is a sensitive task. The tips discussed above can make your work more manageable. And legal guidance can help you validate your decision.